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Hi, I'm a the mofo with that sexy mole and I would like to bury myself in a hole. I am skinny and bulimic but I hate diet coke and apples. I like being sympathetic because it makes me look good and even though I am skinny and bulimic I still do not wish you to be like me. I am unique.
Date:
Friday, August 28, 2009
Time:
5:23 PM
Courting 101
Is it your first time to court a girl? Do you know the do's and donts' of courting? Do you really want the girl to say yes? If your answers are yes, no, and yes, you've come to the right place!
Here's you're basic guide to courting a girl you really like, or love!
Courting Tip #1:
Be sure of what you really feel. Make sure you really like the girl before courting her because it would hurt her feelings if you're in doubt. Even if she doesn't like you. Do not court her if you're just gonna use her to have a sex life or to be popular.
Courting Tip #2:
Ask before you court. It will make the girl look stupid and naive if you don't tell her you intentions, or even ask about it. Don't be shy to admit it. Most girls don't like shy guys.
Courting Tip #3:
If she allowed you, go on to the next tip. If she didn't, just move on and don't hold grudges to the girl because it's not her fault. She clearly and honestly just doesn't like you. But there's always a second try right? Just don't force yourself too much.
Courting Tip #4:
Do not look for other girls to court, especially at the same time! It will make the girl furious! If you want to court her, make sure she's the only one you want.
Courting Tip #5:
Find ways to spend time with her. Even if she is the busiest person on Earth, make sure you support and be there for her. Maybe you might even get lucky when she comes home really late alone.
Courting Tip #6:
Try to flirt with her at times. Just make sure she thinks its okay or she might get really pissed.
Courting Tip #7:
Try to be the man of her dreams. But if you're just forcing yourself to be that man, rather not do it because you'll just look like a hypocrite and a liar.
Courting Tip #8:
Make her feel special at all times, even at her worst.
Courting Tip #9:
Do not force her to tell her answer. It doesn't matter how long you court the girl. Just be patient.
Courting Tip #10:
Make friends with her friends. It will make her be comfortable if her friends think they like you. But don't use her friends as her conscience telling her to say yes. It will really piss her off.
Courting Tip #11:
A girl is always right, even if you're right. Do not argue with the girl. Be modess enough to let her win the bicker. But if she adds more false stories, its time for you to put your foot down. Just don't be too harsh on the girl.
Courting Tip #12:
Accept her in any way. If she does something wrong in the span of your courting period, or even during the past, just accept it because if you really like her, you will do that.
Courting Tip #13:
Send her cute love notes or poems. Although it sounds cheezy, girls like it when guys are sweet. Its one of the reason why most girls fall for a guy. Unless of course the girl you like loves destruction and bloodshed more than cookies and strawberries.
Courting Tip #14:
Love what she loves to do. If you try loving them, you might actually get to know her better. She also likes talking about the things she loves to someone who can relate. Try to study her wants.
Courting Tip #15:
Be sensitive and conservative. Girls like these types of men. Give her gifts, just don't spend so much or she might lie of saying yes to you even if she doesn't like you. You don't want your first relationship to rely on lies right?
Courting Tip #16:
Suport her at all times. Even if the world already turned their backs on her, be sure you're still there. Be there in every competitions, challenges, and conflicts for her.
Courting Tip #17:
Abandon your bad habits. If you know the girl doesn't like some things you do, try to avoid doing them.
Courting Tip #18:
If the girl dumps you after a long period of courting, don't be mad. Courting is a stage wherein she decides if she really wants to be with you or not. Just be mad if she told you that she will say yes because she said a lie. Just move on and don't hold grudges. There are more girls there. Don't think that she's your last. If you don't want to give up, go back to Courting Tip #2.
Courting Tip #19:
DO NOT ASK HER TO HAVE SEX OR KISS YOU. No matter how long you've been courting her, never ask her this. The girl will feel that you're just using her to have a sex life, even if that's not the case. And even if the girl gives in, have the discipline not to continue because you might have regrets.
Courting Tip #20:
If you can't wait any longer, do the sweetest and unexpected proposal. If she says no, go back to Courting Tip #18. If she says not now, wait a little longer and do the propasal again or try a new way of proposing. If she says yes, have a long and happy relationship with the girl!
These are all the tips I could think of. All of these are based from my experiences. These are the things I saw and liked when some guys were courting me. But honestly, my current boyfriend didn't do all this things. I guess its just up to the girl.
If you have any reactions of justifications to some tips, just IM me at evilshadow_ryne@yahoo.com. Add me up and lets chat! You can even suggest additional tips if you want.
Hope you can benefit from my tips! Goodluck!
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